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[highlyeccentric]

If Hitler had had the right orgasms the Holocaust would never have happened.

Germaine Greer, with typical heavy-handedness, attacks Fay Weldon, the female orgasm, men, and everything in between. So far as I can tell, her position on all of these things is that they are wrong.

ed: no wait, she came good on page two:

Fay Weldon is probably right to say that sex without orgasm can be perfectly pleasurable, but making love is even more deeply satisfying than simply having sex, with the female orgasm as an optional extra.

rounding off, of course, with this nice peice of snark:

Weldon is certainly right to say that there is no point in a woman demanding an orgasm from her man. If an orgasm is what she wants, rather than intimacy, there’s always the Rabbit.

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[flamearrows.livejournal.com]

teehee, good use of rationalisation.

I also wonder about the powerplay aspect. Perhaps I'm simply a hopeless romantic (and thus incompatible with that sort of ideology) but is it so hard to think that two people could work that sort of thing out? If relationships founded purely on sex is your thing, then sure, I can see it being a problem, but don't most relationships start with an ability to talk to the other person? Surely that's at least a leg-up to dealing with the problems that are always going to plague that sort of intimacy...

Yawn. I'm turning into an idealist.

[highlyeccentric.livejournal.com]

I'm turning into an idealist.

Lloyd, what's happening to you? this is nearly as disillusioning as finding out you'd abandoned cynical singlehood...

[flamearrows.livejournal.com]

Well, you can slot that illusion back into place since I'm at least back to singlehood...

Maybe that makes my arguments all the sadder since I am without a lovey-dovey partner :P

[highlyeccentric.livejournal.com]

see, non-cynical singlehood might be so much healthier for you, but you had such a great reputation for cynicism!