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hehe... it all looks different when it's your own daughter, doesn't it?

Naomi Wolf's book on female sexuality, Promiscuities, tells what's commonly known as the reclaim-your-inner-slut argument. It seems it now has a catch: 11-year-olds like her daughter don't count.

"It's interesting how the slut you want to reclaim as an ex-teenage girl is not the slut you want your daughter to reclaim," she told ABC Radio's Sunday Profile last night.

"As the mother of a soon-to-be-teenage girl, you know, it's like - honey, my slut is fine, but, you know, keep your slut in the closet!"

After helping Bill Clinton in his re-election campaign - and Al Gore in the one where he got more votes but still lost - she's now raging against the "disgusting" raunch marketing culture aimed at teenage girls.

This "psycho teen-obsessed luxury culture" is best represented by Paris Hilton, the famed example of fame-based fame, and Wolf thinks raunch culture is bad.

"I don't think it transgresses, any more, for teenage girls to reclaim their inner slut," she said. "It's incredibly conformist and conventional. Unfortunately, they are all being raised and pushed to produce someone else's slut. It's not their own inner slut."

(Be you rude or prude, you can hear her this month at the Sydney Writers' Festival.)- SMH

Date: 2006-05-01 02:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yuey.livejournal.com
i read that article too lol along with Honey soy!

Date: 2006-05-01 06:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
I want to reclaim my inner slut!! :D Paint me tarty and call me Paris :P

Date: 2006-05-01 10:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Did you know that some of your advertising appears in Dutch? :D

Date: 2006-05-02 03:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
no... are you sponsored + too? it could be tailoring my ads to you when you're browsing...

or it's just giving me dutch ads. why the hell not?

Date: 2006-05-02 03:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
you're some years behind the times then. inner slut is SO twentieth century.

i'm sure arni would be happy though :P

oh dear god, i just had an image of my mother recovering her inner slut...

Date: 2006-05-02 06:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Oh gods, thank you very much. That just prompted me to think of my mother recovering her inner slut. No, no noooooooooooo!!!!

So what is the vibe of the 21st century? Inner entrepreneur? Inner rapper? Inner Tolkien?

Date: 2006-05-02 06:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Nee, I'm not sponsored. I just happened to go into your journal when I wasn't signed in, and suddenly there all the ads were :D

It does raise questions though. Is it tailoring the ads to the content of your pages, or to the location/needs of your readers? Or is it somehow doing both?

Date: 2006-05-02 07:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
Complaining about Other People's Inner Slut. Declaring that women are now oppressing women. etc.

Date: 2006-05-02 07:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
well how would it know where you are?

i don't think i told it WHERE i am, just picked five interest categories. what were the dutch ads for?

Date: 2006-05-02 07:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
and haha on the mother thought :P

Date: 2006-05-02 08:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Yes well. My mother is 65 so you can see why this is a little alarming :P

Date: 2006-05-02 08:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Gosh that's so incisive it's scary. You're right of course. Yeeaarrrghhh. I think I might go and take refuge inside the Pink Knitted Den of Inducement.

Date: 2006-05-02 08:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Well that's the thing. How *would* it know where I am, if I'm not signed in? Maybe it's somehow accessing my IP address or something. Spooky.

At least one of them was to do with movies, but I didn't read them very thoroughly.

Date: 2006-05-02 08:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
indeed...

MY mother on the other hand is forty-something. Still perfectly eligible to recover her inner slut. But given that joel at thirteen had to explain to her what a dildo is... the inner slut is far removed, methinks.

Date: 2006-05-02 08:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
i remember that. *cries* distressing.

Date: 2006-05-02 08:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
google ads are psychic, this has long been established.

although sometimes their idea of friendly hints is scary :s

Date: 2006-05-02 08:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
A lot less distressing than CAOPIS, I think 0_0

(oh dear, I just pronounced that acronym out loud. LOLOL!)

Date: 2006-05-02 08:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
hehe it does sound funny :P

Date: 2006-05-02 08:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Yikes. Yes. Possibly holidaying on Alpha Centauri?

On a serious note though, I think it's entirely possible for one to be in touch with one's inner slut at any age. It's what you *do* with it that might be rather...alarming :P

*tries not to imagine Paris Hilton at 92*

Date: 2006-05-02 08:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Yes, I know. Some of the things that turn up in my gmail box are distinctly unnerving 0_0

Date: 2006-05-02 08:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
well, in long running email convos between lukas and I, gmail had a habit for a while of advertising
*baby care products
*wedding music
and *various sneaky ways to immigrate to either canada or australia

i was distinctly unnerved by this.

Date: 2006-05-02 08:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
I'm in touch with my inner slut. She sends me long letters from Alpha Centauri :)

Date: 2006-05-02 10:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Understandable, indeed.

(how on earth did I manage to come up with "enderstandable" as a mis-spell??)

I'm going to pay more attention to the ads that come up in some of my weirder email convos. There's at least one person whose emails should bear strange fruit :D

Date: 2006-05-02 10:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com
Letters are so much nicer than emails or text messages, don't you think? :D

Date: 2006-05-02 12:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lepsdavid.livejournal.com
Given the ad discussion in these comments I see fit to point out the concerning ad I get on this very page titled "Your 1 True Love"

Date: 2006-05-02 12:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
obviously in reference to Naomi Wolf :P

Date: 2006-05-02 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lepsdavid.livejournal.com
Obviously, those the ad in the same space has now become "Ringtone on Religion" but never fear two ads below "Who's your perfect lover?"

Date: 2006-05-02 12:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
or perhaps ms Wolf's eleven year old daughter...

Date: 2006-05-02 12:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
and explain why the gmail ad next to this notification email includes an ad for new zealand immigration???

Date: 2006-05-02 12:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lepsdavid.livejournal.com
Probably because you mentioned an animal...

Date: 2006-05-05 12:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mrlachatte.livejournal.com
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

Date: 2006-05-05 12:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] highlyeccentric.livejournal.com
i'm sorry small child. that must have been a traumatic thought.

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